I want to know what you think about, for lack of better term, planned co-parenting. As a 45 year old man, the dating pool for women of child bearing age is getting smaller. If I spend a year on a relationship that doesn't work out, then I may become too old to date a 32 year old, for example. Also, I don't want to donate sperm, becuase I don't want to be anonymous. I would like to have some parental role, particularly when the child is older and possibly to have an heir to my (hopefully family) business. I know as a man, I can wait. But I don't want to be 70 by the time my children ask me for fatherly advice.
So what would you choice moms think about this idea: I would pay for child support in return for a non-custody role of father - similar to what would happen if we were a divorcing couple where the judge awards you custody.
What would you think?
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